telling people

My preference was not to tell people. Enrique's preference was to tell people. In other cases I wouldn't mind telling, but it didn't seem like my role.

This led to a couple of akward moments.

For instance, I'd meet a couple of friends, they would ask "How is Enrique?"

I'd say, "Fine." 10 minutes later he arrived and answered the same question with, "I have a nodule in my thyroid, hopefully it's benign."